Weight Gain in Pregnancy

I was totally obsessed with my weight when I was pregnant with Bennett. I ended up gaining 65 pounds on a frame that was holding a lot already. I lost all of it and then some 9 months later without even exercising, thanks to breastfeeding (I think). This time around, I'm only weighing myself when I'm at my OB visits and it's required. So, take that, you weight-obsessed moms out there! Ugh, I get so sick and tired of pregnant women obsessing about weight. I know it's good to monitor it, but dang it, like my doctor says, "you're making a baby, don't worry so much." I get sick of the moms who brag about only gaining 1 pound. I don't want to hear it.